Younger guys might be full of energy and stamina, but they also bring to the table a lack of experience, selfishness and an attitude that you are just one of many women. Older men, on the other hand, will surprise you and shouldn’t be discounted when it comes to sex after 50. Here are a few reasons why!
I recently read a brief article in the Daily Mail talking about ageism when it comes to dating…basically, seniors who fall head over heels in love again late in life feel like they are doing something wrong, and that couldn’t be farther from the truth. Why is it ok for 20 year olds to be affectionate and sexual, but not over50 daters? Why is it “cute” when young people make-out in the movies but “disturbing” when seniors do it? These questions affect hundreds of daters just like you.
Dates rarely go over without a hitch. In order to make sure your date goes as smoothly as possible, here are a few things you should avoid doing. The more effort you put into your date, the better it will be, and that means the greater the chance for a second date!
I know a woman in her fifties, Amy, who is vivacious, successful and beautiful, who genuinely enjoys experiencing all that life has to offer and always has a smile on her face. She was widowed about ten years ago and her late husband was the absolute love of her life.
Online dating is the best way to meet someone new, and because your profile is the first impression you’ll make on potential matches, it’s important to make sure it reflects how fun, interesting and completely irresistible you are! Here are a few things to remember when putting together your online dating profile-
Taking the plunge and beginning to start online dating is a huge step, but what about those of you who have been doing it for awhile and have finally met someone you’d like to date exclusively…or even marry? Commitments at this stage of life are different than they were in your early twenties, and it’s often confusing-you don’t want to scare anyone away, yet you don’t want to risk losing them either. How do you start a serious relationship…again?
There are two ways to use online dating-first, you can set up a profile, sit back, relax, pour yourself a glass of wine and wait for your inbox to fill up with tons of emails and messages from adoring strangers.
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You can set up a profile, pour yourself a glass of wine, and stop waiting and start breaking…the ice, that is. Here’s how.
Have you ever thought that your days of fun and sparks and passion were behind you, you couldn’t be more wrong. Turns out, just like wine, things really do get better with time, including romance! A recent study shows that sexual and emotional satisfaction actually increases with age…and according to the study, will only keep getting better!
When you’re dating someone new, it’s difficult to figure out where to draw your boundaries and most importantly, how to define your “walk away point.” Think of it like a business deal-you need to determine what you will tolerate, and for how long.
It might seem a bit scary to acknowledge what you need from a relationship, and then follow through with walking away if you aren’t getting it…but it’s the only way you will be able to move on to the next person, and the next…until you meet the person who fulfills your needs on every level.
I know, it’s not even Christmas yet! But hear me out!
Generally speaking, I’m not a huge fan of New Years resolutions…it seems like an unnecessary way to put pressure on yourself-and I don’t know about you, but I’ve never been great at sticking to my resolutions, anyway. 
When it comes to matters of the heart though, I look at the new year as a way to evaluate how things are going, and what I can fix so they will only get better and better!
